
There are 90 caregiver behaviors that lead to secure attachment
These behaviors are part of what's called the Maternal Behavior Q-Set, or MBQS. Researchers developed this list of behaviors as a uniform way of predicting a parent's likelihood to form a secure attachment with their baby.

What is the MBQS?
The Maternal Behavioral Q-Set (MBQS) was specifically developed to operationalize maternal sensitivity, a central construct in attachment theory originally defined by Mary Ainsworth. Ainsworth described a sensitive caregiver as one who notices their baby’s signals, interprets them accurately, and responds promptly and appropriately. Her sensitivity scale, developed through intensive home observations in Uganda and Baltimore, laid the groundwork for understanding how caregiving behaviors influence attachment security.
The MBQS builds directly on this legacy but offers a more detailed and structured way to assess sensitivity. Rather than rating sensitivity on a single scale, the MBQS uses 90 discrete behavioral items—many of which reflect Ainsworth’s original criteria—organized into a Q-sort system.
After observing a mother and baby, a trained observer sorts the items into a fixed distribution, creating a profile of the mother’s behavior. This profile can then be compared to an expert “criterion sort” that represents prototypically sensitive maternal behavior. The degree of similarity between the caregiver's sort and the criterion sort yields a maternal sensitivity score, offering both a rich behavioral description and a quantitative measure.
In this way, the MBQS honors and extends Ainsworth’s work, offering a robust tool for researchers seeking to understand how everyday caregiving supports or hinders the development of secure attachment.
90 MBQS Items
Provides baby with little opportunity to contribute to the interaction
Monitors baby's activities during visit
Mother's responses are unpredictable
During interaction with visitor does not notice baby
Awkward and ill at ease during intimate interactions with baby
Supports interaction of baby with visitor
Treats baby as an inanimate object when moving her around or adjusting her posture
Gives signal or explanation to baby when leaving the room
Ignores positive signals (vocalizations, smiles, reaches)
Speaks to baby directly
Repeats words carefully and slowly to baby as if teaching meaning or labelling an activity or object
Naptimes are determined by mother's convenience rather than the immediate needs of baby
Uses sibling or television to keep baby entertained
Breaks off from baby in mid-interaction to speak to visitor or attend to some other activity
Attempts to involve baby in games or activities that are beyond baby's current capability
During ongoing interactions, misses slow down or back off signals from baby
Content and pace of interaction set by mother rather than according to baby's responses
Home shows little evidence of presence of baby
Places baby in another room when baby is in a bad mood or cranky
Responds accurately to signals of distress
Overwhelmed by caretaking demands
Appears to tune out and not notice bids for attention
Provides baby with unrestricted access to her
Arranges her location so she can perceive baby's signals
Not skillful in dividing her attention between baby and competing demands and therefore misses baby's cues
Responds immediately to cries/whimpers
Responds to baby's distress and non-distress signals even when engaged in some other activity
Offers an acceptable alternative to baby to divert attention from inappropriate activity
When baby is distressed, mother is able to identify the source
Interactions with baby characterized by active physical manipulations
Redirects baby's bids for proximity and/or contact without a transition period to facilitate smooth interactions
Non-synchronous interactions with baby
Repeated series of interventions in search of best method to satisfy baby, resorts to trial and error
Interactions revolve around baby's tempo and current state
Well resolved interaction with baby
Interrupts activity that is likely to be dangerous
Interferes with appropriate activity if it is likely to get baby messy
Provides nutritional snacks
Instructive during interactions with baby
Encourages baby's initiatives in feeding
Interactions with baby are object oriented
Expressions of affection are limited to perfunctory, mechanical kisses
Is animated when interacting with baby
Realistic expectations regarding baby's self-control of affect
Praises baby
Molds baby to self when holding
Displays affection by touching, caressing
Points to and identifies interesting things in baby's environment
Seeks interactions with baby
Creates interesting physical environment for baby
Provides age appropriate toys
Uses verbal prohibitions
Slows pace down, waits for baby's response during interactions
Teases baby to promote continued interaction/contact
Respects baby as an individual
Has lots of "shoulds" or mind sets about baby's care, has rigid routines
Shows delight in interaction with baby
Considers baby's needs when structuring environment
Lets baby carry on with appropriate activity without interruption
Scolds or criticizes baby
Is irritated by demands of baby for physical contact or proximity
Interprets cues correctly as evidenced by baby's response
Signals awareness of baby's distress to baby, but does not intervene
Greets baby when re-entering room
Responds to baby's signals
Consistently unresponsive
Responds only to frequent, prolonged or intense distress
Interactions appropriately vigorous and exciting as judged from baby's responses
Notices when baby is distressed
Response delayed such that baby cannot connect mother's responses with the action that initiated it
Builds on the focus of baby's attention
Notices when baby smiles and vocalizes
When irritated with baby, disengages or distances herself from interaction with baby
Anxious about baby's exploration
Encourages independent exploration of environment
Uses close bodily contact to soothe baby
Vocalizes to baby throughout the visit
Plays social games with baby
Distressed by baby's demands
Annoyed by baby's uncooperative behaviour
Spontaneously expresses positive feelings to baby
Physically restricts baby's movements while in proximity
Aloof when interacting with baby
Display of affect does not match baby's display of affect
Interactions with baby are incomplete
Terminates physical contact before baby is satisfied
Actively opposes baby's wishes
Interactions with baby are characterized by conflict
Interventions satisfy baby
Punitive or retaliatory during interactions with baby
If this list overwhelms you-
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